Tonight the kitchen sink was clogged up with some herbal stuff that a certain someone decided to send down the garbage disposal. This device is NOT meant to deal with leaves, herbs and twigs...So I tried a snake, and I tried a plunger, to no avail. I had my hand all up in there, picking twigs and leaves out for a very long time... Then I decided to get radical and I took the pipes apart under the sink. And I removed the gunk. And then I put them back together. And then I had to do it a second time because there was more gunk I missed the first time. So I did.
I did this. Successfully.
I didn't call a plumber.
I didn't have to discuss with anyone what to do.
I didn't have anyone disagreeing with what I thought should be done.
I just saw what needed doing and did it, because that is now I am.
I saved a bunch of money.
It is scary and awful to be alone, but unilateral decisions that turn out well....kinda nice.