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Gripetitude

Today's been hard, emotionally.  No big sobfests on my part, but the kids are sort of coming unglued.  Who wouldn't be, given the circumstances of their lives?  It's not like they just have a dad with brain cancer...they also have a mom who is very fatigued and chronically ill and who struggles with her own health every day.  And they have siblings who have autism to deal with, who need extra care and love and patience.  All this added together renders our family one big mess. 

I won't go into details.  Suffice it to say, more than one of us lost our temper, had a melt down, raised our voices, got super tired....it was a day.

In order to diffuse some of the negative energy I took three of the kids to the zoo for a walk.  It was colder than we wanted it to be and not all the animals were out, but at least we walked and breathed somewhat fresher air for a couple of hours.

I should not have gone because I have a hellish chest cold, but I popped a Dayquil and off we went.…

Zoo Outing.

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We walked along in silence, holding hands, with my fingers threaded through the straps of my purse as well.  My other hand had a cane.  People made great efforts to avoid us.  Probably because I am that strange woman in a headscarf and a cane. 

When did I become so weird?  One or the other, but not BOTH...good grief.  A cane AND a scarf...how dare I? 

We walked along, not saying much, but looking at the zoo animals as we came to each one. 

The sun was shining on us and it was warm.  Lots of families with young children were all around us.  Noticeably absent were teenagers, including ours.  The zoo is not a place that appeals to teenagers, I guess. 

But it appealed to us and so we went and bought passes.  He said something about coming here for walks after his oncologist visits some afternoons.  This would be a good place to process bad news, I knew.  That's what he meant although the words were unsaid. 

I was holding his hand and I said:  "I sure loved it when the kids w…

This Needs to Be Said

Sooooo many people are praying for Wes.  I appreciate it and I can feel the love.  The knowledge of those prayers sustain me.  They really do. 

But what if....WHAT IF...God's answer to those prayers for healing is "No.  Not this time."  What if the ordinary course of nature is allowed to happen? 

What if Wes dies?  Will God be glorified in that way, too?  Will the Kingdom of God advance by the ordinary early death of one good man?

I truly hope, dear readers, that you are not pinning your hope on healing.  Because God is bigger than that.  God is bigger than our temporal hope. 

Lazarus died twice, you know. 

Someone told me, a few months ago, that "God is gonna heal him.  He has to.  So many people are praying for that." 

But he doesn't have to. 

The most basic, fundamental Christian prayer, the Lord's Prayer is taught to us by Christ God himself:  Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." 

How can I, as a servant of God, presume to tel…

Long Awaited Update on Wes

The reason I have not been updating you all on Wes and his brain tumor is that there has been no new information.  He's been going to work, he's been taking his prescribed meds, life goes on. 

Last week he had a follow up MRI to see how the chemo and radiation course affected his tumor.  Today we got the results: 

Not good.  The tumor looks worse, is more swollen and has taken up even more contrast dye than on the last MRI, which is an indicator, the doctor says, of how aggressive it is. 

For right now, Wes' day to day functionality is good.  He's started having a headache when he leans over, and for the past few days he's been running a low grade fever which his oncologist has been made aware of.  So far his blood work is still coming back with numbers within the normal range, but they ARE starting to slip down towards the low end of the normal range.

He will have another MRI in four weeks and then we shall see.  The doctor DID bring up the possibility of brain…